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    Here in the Northern Hemisphere, spring is just around the corner. Also, Valentine's Day passed by with nobody at TPM notifying about it. So what's your love life like these days? Do you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend? Have you ever had? What's the definition for a girl/boyfriend? I don't we think we have had this kind of thread for three years or more, so why not update?

    I finally had a girlfriend for like 4 or 5 months in 2015. I got to know her in the hospital. But hospital romances are hospital romances, and we agreed to cut it off with the serious relationship and now we are just friends. We play games and watch Sailor Moon together.

    Like I have told in 'The Truth About Mikachu Yukitatsu' and other old topics, all my romances were either one-sided or very short before the one in 2015. To name a few; my first love Aoumi never replied to my feelings, but living in the same house for 7 years, we did a lot of things together, played Bomberman, shared bags of candy and went swimming. MaaREIto-sama and I had a date in May 2003, but I was unable to grasp the opportunity to deepen the relationship. Then there's one friendship I have hidden a lot. I call it Mi-Mi2011. There I was able to form a friendship with a beautiful young girl, secretly loving and wanting her. I played Bomberman World with her as well.

    I want to pose yet one more question. Do you think a girl could agree with me for another temporary, short term relationship? I want more experience on love things, but living with the same woman for the rest of your life sounds like a heavy promise now.

    Now the topic is yours to reply. Please reply.

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    When I think about defining a boyfriend, I guess I'd define that as someone with an agreed upon commitment to continue seeing one another with a promise to, if things should end, have a conversation about it ending, along with reciprocated feelings that we are interested in long-term pursuit of a relationship with an end goal of cohabitation. It feels very clinical to think of things in that way, though, and also very black-and-white. Whether that relationship is monogamous or polyamorous is really up to the couple, or triple, or even more!

    I have a preference for monogamy, though, and would rather have a relationship with just the one person than one with others. I also don't really like open relationships.

    I've had MANY short-term partners and a few long-term relationships. If I were to consider, say, six months as a "serious" relationship, then I've had four of those.

    I've also recently had a three-month long-distance relationship but we broke up in January. I'm currently dating around a bit... there are two guys I've had two dates with and have a third date scheduled with one of them tonight and a third date this weekend with the other. It seems it's time to pick one to pursue, and I rather like this introverted man named Ian who is pursuing his PhD nearby. I think we've got more sexual and romantic chemistry. The other man, Randy, has an established career and a lot of outgoing energy which I also like. One's ENTP and one's INFJ, both of which work well with my personality type (ENTP), but I've always really liked those INFJs.
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    As usual, I'm still single. But now I definitely know what I want in a potential girlfriend. While looks are important to me, I find that a great personality and plenty of intelligence are more important. Besides those, I'm now seriously considering someone who would definitely consider herself a girly girl (I'm not really attracted to tomboys). Last year I unexpectedly met someone who first caught my eye on plentyoffish back in 2010 or 2011, but unfortunately a combination of misfortune with her, strong opposition to my wish to make things "right" with her (and hopefully try and at least see if a friendship could have been possible), and the fact she works for a dentist I used to have an uncomfortable time with (I changed dentists in order to get over my discomfort with this dentist) have totally destroyed my interest in her. As excruciatingly painful as that is, I have no choice but to move on and forget her (hopefully that'll gradually get easier with enough time). Luckily, my new support worker (who is also distantly related to me) is planning to help me as much as he can, so with his help I have a funny feeling he and I might get to hang with one or more of the women from the place helping me with my disability that do have a girly side. Of course, it's going to take a LOT of time and work for me to be ready to fall in love with anyone. I don't want to break someone's heart, but until I can lower my really high guard, I just simply will have a very strong preference for friendship over love.
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    I've been starting to get a lot more attention from the ladies now than I did five years ago. In the last couple years my partner-count went from 2 to 14 haha (which I don't even consider that much, though five years ago I would have pedestalized that, go figure lol). Not really invested in anything serious at the moment, just a few flings here and there, some lasting longer than others. My last serious-ish relationship was in 2014. We ended up wanting different things.

    Don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those against monogamy. I just notice while dating around things usually tend to go my way the less overly invested I get, so that's working out for me right now.
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    Sorry to be the outlier. I met a girl who had just moved in in eighth grade. We started dating that year, engaged freshman year of college, married sophomore spring break, have one son (15 mo old, likes Batman and making Mario jump on TV) and a daughter on the way in July. Part of it is we're very nice to each other, but a lot of it is that we try to keep communication open.
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    It's just I came to realize that I just had no realistic ideas on what actually to do with the girls. Guard their virginity for the rest of their life?

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