How To Handle an Idiot

[Dark Sage]

I've had to deal with idiots a lot. (I'm not talking about anyone on TPM). And I just realized how to handle one, listen up.

I recently replied to a story on HuffPost about Supreme Court Chief Justice Roberts. This story had nothing whatsover to do with any Court case. It had to do with his credit card number being stolen recently, something I can sympathize with because, well, I was a victim of this crime recently too.

As often happens, an idiot replied to my post, claiming that someone "greased his palm" to influence his decision on Obamacare and that I was being "paid by the billionaire left PR propaganda machine to say these things".

My post did not even mention Obamacare, or any political issue at all. Folks have made this accusation against me many times, mainly by birthers and other right-wing nuts who believe conspiracy theories.

I didn't deny it this time. This time I told him, "Why thank you, it's putting my daughter through college."

And he didn't bother me again. Take note.

[Kumori]

May I just say that is the best response I've ever seen. Kudos to you, sir.

[Asilynne]

Its Huffpost, the comments in EVERY article somehow go back to politics...lol

[mattbcl]

I love it. Thumbs up!

[Telume]

I read HuffPost from time to time and I pretty much treat the comments from HuffPost like I do the ones from Youtube: I ignore them. Pretty witty response either way, though.

[Heald]

So the guy on this forum who couldn't win an argument against anyone here decides to post how he won an argument on a website notorious for having a collection of commenters ranking amongst the stupidest on the Internet?

Colour me unimpressed.

[shazza]

I remember my first beer.

[Andrew]

Tell me more Shaz.

Also DS, you're taking the intarwebs too seriously.

[DarkestLight]

*Is a professional idiot*

Shadow Wolf wins the thread.

[Kumori]

*Is a professional idiot*

Shadow Wolf wins the thread.

Well damn. I'm just a ~professional noob~

[Roy Karrde]

Hey I gotta say congrats Dark Sage, I think we could use a thread in which we discuss how to handle trolls and bullies as that is something many if not most of us face both on the net and in real life.

[Blademaster]

I love the irony of this thread's title coupled with its content.

Thanks for the advice.

[Kumori]

No, you do not need to go on. I dislike many religions that press "you MUST do this" and "you MUST do that". Must I? And religions that press us and force us into believing... I'd like a religion that didn't force you to do everything, and just asked that you treat people with respect.

And I support gay marriage. I even started a petition, but it never got enough signatures. I'm an atheist, anyway... I don't see the point in religion.

[RedStarWarrior]

Some idiots are dealt with so easily.

"See, he admitted to it!"

[Mikachu Yukitatsu]

How long has it been since we had a religion war at TPM? I remember one from like 2006. Those threads are really something to stay away from, I can't imagine what new 'discussing' religion at The Everfree Forest would bring though.

EDIT: Or on a second thought, perhaps I can.

[Dark Sage]

I wasn't trying to challenge religion, Mikachu. I was pointing out how I challenged an obscure reference in the Bible that anti-gay marriage ponies were using with LOTS of other ones that were just as silly.

You know, most people say the Bible is a boring book, but it can be full of laughs if you look hard enough.

Do you know that Jesus had a sense of humor? He said a lot of profound, inspiring, and uplifting things, but some would think you wouldn't ever get laughs from what He said... Or could you? I'll prove it:

This usually gets lost in the translation, but there was one passage in the Gospel where He said, "Is there anypony among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give a snake instead of a fish? Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?"

There was also interaction with the Samaritan woman at the well:

Jesus said to her, "Go, call your husband, and come back." The woman answered him, "I have no husband." Jesus said to her, "You are right in saying, 'I have no husband'; for you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband. What you have said is true!"

His first meeting with the soon-to-be Apostle Nathaniel went like this:

Nathaniel: Can anything good come from Nazareth?
Philip: Come and see.
Jesus, upon seeing Nathaniel: Behold, an Israelite in whom there is no deceit!
Nathaniel, to Jesus: How do you know me?
Jesus: Before Philip called you, I saw you under the fig tree.
Nathaniel: Rabbi, you are the Son of God; you are the King of Israel.
Jesus: Do you believe because I told you that I saw you under the fig tree? You will see greater things than this.

In fact, when Pilate asked Him directly if He was King of the Jews, His response was more or less, "You said it, I didn't."

So you be the judge. Did Jesus have a sense of humor?

[Mikachu Yukitatsu]

I wasn't trying to challenge religion, Mikachu. I was pointing out how I challenged an obscure reference in the Bible that anti-gay marriage ponies were using with LOTS of other ones that were just as silly.

You know, most people say the Bible is a boring book, but it can be full of laughs if you look hard enough.

Do you know that Jesus had a sense of humor?

OK, I was overreacting. But tell you what, I knew the Bible has a lot of humor, even outside gospels where Jesus appears. I read it a lot when I was a small child. That was before I got into video games.

And to say it my way, Jesus never says gays go to hell. That's a misconception.

[Telume]

There's a lot of surprising things in history that people tend to miss because of mis-interpretation.

Matter of fact, here's probably a list of things that got turned to "fact" because of something lost in translation (and/or) intentionally left out:



And another set of misconceptions:



I'm pretty sure at some people some of you believed these "facts".

But it illustrates a point: People are very gullible.

[Kumori]

Jesus has the best sense of humour in the Bible. I want to read it just to laugh at Jesus's sense of humour.

[CaptainJigglypuff]

I actually do not believe God wants people to suffer when they die and that Hell really isn't hot and fiery and all torture. Think about it. The Bible says Hell has fire and brimstone but so does Hawaii and THAT place is considered a paradise. My theroy is that the difference between Heaven and Hell is that Heaven is more luxurious and has a few more perks. Sort of like a restaurant with a private dining room reserved for special guests.

[Dark Sage]

People, the April Fool's joke is over. It was funny, but...

Can someone undo the edits to our posts that changed various words to "ponies" and "hooves" now?

[Gavin Luper]

People, the April Fool's joke is over. It was funny, but...

Can someone undo the edits to our posts that changed various words to "ponies" and "hooves" now?

I think it's fixed now.

[Oslo]

I actually do not believe God wants people to suffer when they die and that Hell really isn't hot and fiery and all torture. Think about it. The Bible says Hell has fire and brimstone but so does Hawaii and THAT place is considered a paradise. My theroy is that the difference between Heaven and Hell is that Heaven is more luxurious and has a few more perks. Sort of like a restaurant with a private dining room reserved for special guests.

So I've been doing good deeds and all I'm gonna get out of it is afterlife valet parking? D: wtf. Excuse me while I go steal some shit and punch children.

[Dark Sage]

Yeah, the Calvinists had similar views.

They also forbade holding any festivities on Christmas. To them, being happy was taboo. Even Quakers tend to be more cheerful than they used to be.

[ChobiChibi]

So to slyly move back on topic...

Working in retail means I see my fair share of idiots, but this website never fails to amuse me.

But I find the best way to handle an idiot is to ignore them.

[Heald]

"Do not argue with an idiot; they drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."

-Mark Twain

No wiser words were spoken.

[Dark Sage]

"It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt."

- Mark Twain

[Heald]

That too.

[mattbcl]

Chobi, I'll admit to jealousy. Would that I had the ability to ignore idiots in my job... unfortunately, mine involves going into their homes, which is far worse than them coming to my place of business. It could be my imagination, but it seems to me that arguing with idiots is far more difficult when you're on their territory. Bad enough trying to tell a customer they're wrong (a cardinal sin in business), worse trying to tell them why. I must, instead, resort to reasoning with them.

[Dark Sage]

I just handled another idiot last night.

I was on my way to work (I had to walk about four blocks from the subway to my job site) when some big guy tried to stop me, saying he needed me for something.

I told him, "Fellah, I'm going to be late, okay? Don' bother me."

Then he said, "I'm a Marine!" to try to sway me.

I gave him a strange look (I kind of doubted it, and even if it was true, it didn't give him any authority), took my cellphone out, and said. "Yeah, I might be impressed if I were one too, but I'm not. Get lost."

Then he started cussing me out as I walked away (insulting my weight, like a lot of bums in New York tend to do when I tell them off) but the cellphone is the way you get them to back off. These people do NOT want to deal with the cops.

[shazza]

Firstly,



Secondly,

"Fellah, I'm going to be late, okay? Don' bother me."

You're a fucking dumbass, mate.

[Dark Sage]

Uh, Shazza, my shift started at midnight, it was currently 11:50.

I think I had a valid point.

[Asilynne]

[Dark Sage]

Okay, can you and Twilight Sparkle let me in on the joke here?

[Asilynne]

I don't even know how to explain it without sounding mean but here goes.

This thread is basically about you bragging how you gave a comeback to someones post on a news/opinion site, and how you feel that you "won" a minor confrontation with a stranger on the street with your cellphone, by implying you were set the call the cops. If these are victories to you, if these are the things you are proud of accomplishing, come on man!! Get some more self esteem Sorry but those are relatively 'nothing' things to be proud of...>.>

Now if someone tried to mug you and you kicked their ass and sent them running then we'd be talking

[Dark Sage]

I was pretty sure the guy WAS going to mug me, and if you saw him, you'd realize that.

I'm not a violent person, Asilynne, so I have to handle folks like this the way I can.

[shazza]

if he was endeavoring to mug you, he would surely do so without a second thought after you fobbed him off.

perhaps one needs to look deep within to your thoughts - understand the basis and benefit of the stereotypes you have generated which, seem to me, are only creating a hostile world and only causing yourself pain.

you may have just passed up a once in a lifetime opportunity to triumph in the United States Fleet Marine Forces

[Dark Sage]

Shazza, here's how muggers work in New York City. Being a native, I know this.

They hang around places where people tend to be (like the convenience store he was at) where a lot of people are around, and try to convince someone to follow him to a place where there's no-one around, like an alley or secluded spot.

If a stranger flags you down in the middle of the night and asks for help, you do NOT get out of your car and do it. You tell him to go down to the gas station down the street and you'll call for a pickup truck there. If he refuses to do that, you step on the gas.

People fall for tricks like this so often, muggers and rapsts don't even have to use guns most of the time. They can subdue a victim with nothing more than a hunk of pipe. The key to foiling them is to just stay to a brightly-lit area, because even if hey have a gun, they will not try something there. A mugger that does that might as well be telling the cops to take him to jail.

And he wasn't a Marine. Trust me. He looked like Tone Loc, but without the charm.

And I'm too old to enlist anyway.

[abunaidesu]

Shazza, here's how muggers work in New York City. Being a native, I know this.

They hang around places where people tend to be (like the convenience store he was at) where a lot of people are around, and try to convince someone to follow him to a place where there's no-one around, like an alley or secluded spot.

If a stranger flags you down in the middle of the night and asks for help, you do NOT get out of your car and do it. You tell him to go down to the gas station down the street and you'll call for a pickup truck there. If he refuses to do that, you step on the gas.

People fall for tricks like this so often, muggers and rapsts don't even have to use guns most of the time. They can subdue a victim with nothing more than a hunk of pipe. The key to foiling them is to just stay to a brightly-lit area, because even if hey have a gun, they will not try something there. A mugger that does that might as well be telling the cops to take him to jail.

And he wasn't a Marine. Trust me. He looked like Tone Loc, but without the charm.

And I'm too old to enlist anyway.

I'm pretty sure this concept applies to anyone living in a big city.

[Dark Sage]

I'm pretty sure this concept applies to anyone living in a big city.

True.

And if Shazza and Asilynne lived in such a place, it would have been obvious that I was justified in what I did and their claims as to why I was in the wrong were absurd. That guy was nothing but trouble.

you may have just passed up a once in a lifetime opportunity to triumph in the United States Fleet Marine Forces

As much chance as I'd have had that night of meeting a leprechaun, I'd say.