As unusual as it is to witness a fight between 2 people named Rebecca, it's something I must discourage.

Becca, I've talked to you via PM, and I half understand your situation, but that doesn't justify being aggressive. Even if it were a personal problem with someone, which as far as I know it isn't, aggression doesn't help sorting things out, it only makes things worse.

And Shonta, it's a good thing I read your post at Expedia before I saw the one you made here. Otherwise I would have thought you'd resigned because of Becca's post, which wouldn't be a good thing to do. Don't let incisive remarks get to you. Besides, you acted responsibly by choosing to resign when you saw you weren't going to ref battles for a while, rather than keep people waiting, and for that reason you'll be able to become a ref again if your situation changes in the future.