If you think 3 weeks is bad, try 4 months. MLG left Andrew and Mine's Melee due to other priorities and we've since not had a ref.
I've pleaded with people in the topic and despite the fact we'll be battling for mere rounds to go (3 or 4) people stray away from it. Its not a nice thing to say something just whittle away but I'm not giving up on it yet.