I agree with you, on multiple points. But I'm going to touch on the bringing a child to a midnight showing one.
They said that they brought the kids hoping they would sleep through the movie so that for once in probably a long time they could see what it feels like to date each other again. Its really easy to sit back and be judgmental but we are not living their lives, and someone on the outside of our lives looking in could equally judge anything we do if we were suddenly in the spotlight.
No. I hear parents say that their baby sleeps through the movie and they get a chance to sit and enjoy the film. No. Bringing a Baby to a movie is like bringing an armed grenade to a trust fall. Shit's a time bomb waiting to explode. I'm not even being judgmental. I truly think its BAD PARENTING. Yes, I understand parents need a break. I understand parents are (obviously) people with the same need for creature comforts-especially the mom if she is not working. But for pete's sake, get a sitter. Wake up grandma. Get the movie on bootleg. Put the child in a car and leave it there for 2 hours-daytime preferably (no, don't do the last one XD). Go to a Matinee-those are usually chock full of babies. Don't bring your baby to a premiere, especially not at night. :/ Restaurant, fine. Drive in movie theater-OK (still ear grating..) Opera house, NO >O! Broadway play NO! I'm seriously against it. You can wait two years -.-. Least 2 Year olds are easy to shut up with candy.
I'm having a hard time understanding that since usually the bond between a father and his kids is one where he would lay down his life for them.
o.O No offense, I laughed when I read this. Again. Differing experiences, but the concept of fatherhood that I've seen forks dramatically. His response is something that I have unfortunately come to expect. Not saying there aren't good fathers out there that do act like how you describe, I see them and know them very well (including my own) But honestly...its the minority, Brandy. At least for my interpretation. So yeah, I can't judge him either, but I can't say that I didn't expect that

Kinda sad really.
I don't know if personally I would trust him since he would have already shown how he handles an emergency.
He was all like " CHILL THEY POPPING OFF!!! EVERYONE FOR THEMSELVES!!" *TOSS BABY IN HER LAP, JUKE FOR EXIT* XD
Yeah too soon, but the mental had to be released.