Why should I give you outside evidence of
myself when that's what I'm referring to when I mention
myself? You made claims that I must have been through something traumatic and it "turned" me bisexual; you also told me that I "must" have chosen to be bisexual.
You made those claims. I refuted them. You cannot tell me I'm wrong - because
I am the only one who knows, and you are not qualified to tell me about myself, no matter how much you might like to think you can. I asked you to parallel the situation you try to tell me is true of me by supplying me with the version that applies to you, which only you will know (i.e., did you choose to be straight?) - and I am yet to hear back from you what your answer is. I'm not asking you to say, "well, this professor says this", because that has no relevance to
you. That's what you seem to be missing - when I say something of
myself, I'm the only one who can make the claim or refute it later, if I end up doing so.
You cannot do this for me.
You are the only one who can make a claim of yourself and later refute it, if you end up doing so - because
you are the only one who knows. I cannot do this for you. But I'm not trying - and there's the crucial difference; I'm not trying to teach you about you as if you don't know and I do, but you
are trying to teach me about me as if you know and I don't. It's fallacious - and perhaps you find the prospect of confronting that fearful. I don't know. You do, though - and something else you know is whether or not you chose to be straight. So,
did you? All you've said has told me that you don't think you did. So, what does that say for your argument that I must have? It has no weight, because you wouldn't know and you can't parallel it for yourself.