1. I'm on the cuss of Pisces and Aquarius so I get to be either, depending on what year it is or what retarded magazine I'm reading. It's kinda annoying because when anyone asks my star sign I have to explain that I'm both and cause utter confusion and questions. 19th February sucks.
2. Fate, yes. I do think everything is already pre planned. Say you missed a car accident by seconds because you stalled or something, then you say "Wow, if I hadn't have stalled my car that would've hit me!" but maybe it just wasn't supposed to hit you! Ah, man. I can't try to explain that anymore, just someone please tell me they get the gist?
Love at first sight, no. Crushes at first sight, yes. Crushes are based on thinking someone looks nice and you might want to be with them, love is when you know someone and appreciate them for everything they do, which you can't tell just by glancing at someone once.