I agree with Ayeun here, if there was an option to view whatever colour(s) one of us wanted to see for ASB, and maybe other forums, I think that would be easier, just as long as regardless what colour(s) one person chooses to see the forum in, that another person has the ability to choose what colour(s) they want to see the forum in, without having any effect on the colour(s) chosen by the first person (e.g. if Ayeun got to see the page in pink and white, and I got to see the page in any shade of red and some other colour, I think everyone would be happy).

I've seen this kind of thing in another forum, sort of, so why not give it a shot?