If that is true, then in Sodom, why were they all outside Lot's door banging on it and threatening him if he didn't send out his angel guests that they may "know" them? They were trying to force their will on the new visitors in town. It says both young and old from all over the city were at Lot's door.
Yes, there is a difference. But Lucifer said "I will be like the Most High meaning he wasn't happy being an angel and wanted to be God. Which of those two Prides was he guilty of? We can be happy for ourselves or someone we know, but that's not the same thing as arrogant pride.