Aha, I seem to be the exact same girl that you've described, Asi! XD However, the difference between us is that I'm the creative one, not me bf.

I guess the best thing you can do is set a definite time in week where it is just you and your writing. Thankfully for me this is not an issue anymore, I have a crap retail job, just finished my degree and my bf is in the Channel Islands for 10 days.

I laughed the one time he said to me "You're always writing for that RPG board of yours". At the time, I wasn't (was during dissertation prep time, eep!) and I never actually spend time writing when he's around, so I'm not sure what he's complaining about.

However, you have set worries in my mind about moving in with him now. I hope I will still have "me" time, and that I won't interrupt his too much (his time is mostly spent playing the latest game he's hooked on).

As for the cafe thing, reminds me of that Family Guy sketch about people writing screen plays in Starbucks, so someone sees them writing XD Why isn't it on youtube anymore?

Finally, it's topics like these that make me wish RPG was still in Fanfic. Maybe I should frequent Fanfic more often >_>