Does rejecting give women an ego-rush or something? (follow up to shazza's topic)

[Greyfox]

I'm gonna be honest with you -- everything I read from you came off as whining over someone rejecting you in a colorful way. I'm not saying that people should berate the people who are asking them out, but I can't also say that I don't blame them for it. Girls get asked out all the time by people they aren't attracted to. All. The. Time. After awhile, you'd start to feel jaded about the entire thing and either be rude about it or antagonistic.

"You could've just said 'no' doesn't cut it, because saying no doesn't work all the time. Hell, it doesn't even work most of the time, because most of the guys that are asking these girls out just refuse to take that for an answer. I'm not saying that you're one of those guys at all -- you could be the nicest guy in the world -- but they don't know that.

You hafta realize that a lot of these girls aren't laughing out of malice or spite. They're doing it because that's the only thing that works. Like I said before, they get asked out constantly. It takes way too much patience to politely decline that many people.

[Zak]

I'm gonna be honest with you -- everything I read from you came off as whining over someone rejecting you in a colorful way.

Well, that first sentence alone clearly you didn't read anything beyond the thread title and did indeed pass it off as one of the million other threads like this.
Because I clearly stated that this had nothing to do with me. And thankfully, for the record, that hasn't even happened in a long time. Nice try though.

If you actually bothered reading my post, Andy, you'd see that I was talking about second-hand comments I see on Facebook, blogs, or overhear during conversations at lunch and stuff that I'm not involved in, and my observations based on that. That is all.


Yeah, so stop talking out of your ass and pretending you actually read any of my posts. Honestly, I would expect better reading comprehension from a former Misc mod.
Not to mention that starting a sentence with "I'm going to be honest" followed by a lie about having read something when you didn't, is kind of intelligence-insulting.


So, yeah, come back when you've actually read it and can contribute something worthwhile rather than foolishly state the obvious like "don't call her a bitch, don't demand an explanation" etc., as that is also kind of intelligence-insulting.

Anyone who tries to justify that would have to be pretty messed up, and at no point in any of my posts did I condone anything remotely close to either of those things. Saying that I did, only makes it difficult for anyone to take you seriously or even believe that you read anything.