Does rejecting give women an ego-rush or something? (follow up to shazza's topic)

[Zak]

lolwut

If you want a serious reply then here it is: some people make themselves feel better by making others feel worse about themselves. Some of these are women. Women can easily do this by rejecting a man in a humiliating way. It is usually a sign of a person's insecurity about their themselves more than it is a sign of that person's confidence.

tl;dr version: bitches be stepping

Bingo. I said the exact same thing (which I'll rephrase) in one of my replies when I was talking about how its important to make sure you have the upper hand. I said how the best way to approach someone is to make it be about you and being their loss rather than about them, avoid buttering them up and putting on a pedastool entirely. The more you make it about yourself, the more sign of confidence there is, because in a way you are beating them at their own game.
Guess we are on the same page then because I am well aware of how efficient that is (which it is).

Also the best way to avoid any sort of 'friendzone' (usually) is whenever you feel compelled to suck up to them or comfort them, do the opposite. Even if it 'feels' wrong, because like Greyfox said before to fake it. If you really wanna get laid then it really is worth that leap of faith, because it shows you're not constantly worried about what she's thinking.

p.s. will reply to Grey later